Daddy and Other Daddy
was photographed by Clayton Hauck
at See You Soon during a Keep it 100 session on April 11, 2025.
Interviewed on location and edited by Clayton Hauck.
We do kind of like twitchy, nervy sort of indie rock. It's like stuff that feels a little anxious, a little tense.
Daddy and Other Daddy:
βItβs All Liesβ
Hi, Daddy and Other Daddy. You guys are a band, yeah? What do you play?
Oh, lots of different things. Go for it, you start.
Well, Mark always says we play twitchy, nervy, indy rock β¦ The cool thing about our band and the thing that I think makes us unique is that we all play multiple instruments, and we switch multiple instruments when we're playing live. So, I think I counted at the last show we had a total of eleven instruments, even though there's only three of us.
I love bands that do that, and that's amazing. Do you guys find it like a challenge to see if you can maximize the amount of swaps you're doing in a set?
I think it's actually kind of the other way around. We don't go out of our way to switch instruments. It's sort of like whatever the song asks for is what we end up playing. And when we play live, it's logistically how are we gonna make this work β and minimize the amount of switching because that ends up taking time.
Is there ever a song where anyone is like, fuck, I gotta do drums or whatever and I donβt wanna do it?
(Laughs) Iβm the only drummer.
I would say the basics are: Patrick is a drummer, Mark is a bass player, and I'm (Rebecca) a keyboard player. But we've all grown from there, so Mark also plays guitar, Patrick does ukulele and keyboards, I play synth. Mark taught me a baseline. (Laughs) We all push each other out of our own comfort zones.
Are you all from Chicago originally, or where are you guys from? And what brought you to Chicago, if not?
I grew up in the suburbs. Chicagoland.
I grew up in Iowa. I came out here when I was 18 [for school].
And I grew up in the Boston area, but both of my parents are from Chicago and my grandparents were from Chicago and my grandma even grew up in Humboldt Park, not far from here. I came here at 21, and that was 18 years ago. So I've lived here longer than I've lived anywhere else at this point.
Is there a band origin story? How did you yβall meet?
This is funny, actually. Mark and I were college roommates, and then ended up in the same graduate school program, and ended up in the same hospital for a minuteβ
As clinicians! (Laughs)
We're psychologists. Mark and I are psychologists. And we had a long history and sort of made it all the way through.
The name of the band is not because we're both dads. We were a two person band for a long time, and we just thought βDaddy and Other Daddyβ was a funny concept β and then we had kids. And they're only two months apart. So, it's like a forced family.
And then I met Mark at Old Town School of Folk Music, like a great Chicago institution. We were both in the grunge ensemble together. He was playing bass, and I was playing guitar. We started hanging out outside of class, and I'm very grateful they invited me to fill in some sounds on the band.
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How often are you playing? Is music a majority of your lives?
This isn't a full time thing. I work at Northwestern University. I'm a clinical psychologist and a professor there. But I've been playing since I was fourteen, so it's kind of like a lifelong thing.
It's about 20% of my life, which I wish was a little bit bigger, butβ¦
Yeah, I think I'm also trying to make it bigger. I still keep up with classical piano a little, which is what I played as a kid, but most of my energies musically are focused on the band, but I also work healthcare. We all work in healthcare!
That is interesting. Favorite venue to play in Chicago β or any favorite shows you've done in your careers?
I love playing at The Empty Bottle. That's by far my favorite venue to play.
I like house parties, too. There was a place that we frequented that was a big house in Elmhurst and they turned their huge basement literally into a venue with like curtains and chairs, and you could smoke cigarettes down there, and drink beers. It was a venue that felt really big because it was so small, but it would always be packed. It was called Cafe Ballistico, and it was tons of fun. Those were my favorite shows.
I've never been in a band myself, but do you haveβ
You should try it sometime! Do you play any instruments?
No, I don't. I just have weird energy and sing (not well).
But I was wondering, Is it different playing a show versus going to see a show? Do you have venues that you love to see a show, but you're like it kind of sucks to play there? Does that make sense?
That's a good question.
You know, I had a really bad experience once at the Elbo Room. I like seeing shows at the Elbo Room, but the first time I ever played there, the sound guy was awful.
I feel like when I'm playing live, I'm a lot more compassionate and forgiving for what the venue is like than if I'm attending. Because if I'm attending, it's as an audience member, and so you're taking in the totality of the experience. But if you're on stage, you think about all the different things that you need to do in order to just make it like, not go wrong while you're on stageβ¦ which is an interesting thing Iβve not thought about before.
Different perspectives.
Bucket list place to play?
I'd like to play The Hideout. I haven't played a gig there.
I think one day we'll play the United Center. (Laughs)
I love it.
Did we actually answer your question, by the way, because you asked what we playedβ
Let's answer that. What do you guys play β What type of music do you guys play?
Like what you said was absolutely right. We do kind of like twitchy, nervy sort of indie rock. It's like stuff that feels a little anxious, a little tense. Some of it is instrumental; some of it is vocal; it's got weird time signatures; it's got weird atmospheric sort of going through it; but there's also like a pretty strong sense of pop melody throughout it. It's sort of all over the place.
I think weβre actually pretty tight. Mark writes some really intricate baselines and melody lines. And Patrick is always doing cool things on drums and I think they both write different tunes, but somehow everything fits together.
We complement each other pretty well.
I think you can tell we've been playing together for as long as we have. It's probably about two decades [of playing together in different bands] at this point.
And when Rebecca joined the band, we got a lot of feedback about that after our first show together.
In what way?
Why are you looking scared? (Laughs)
Just how much it filled out the sound. We were a two person band. So recording we could layer stuff, gigging it was a little tougher. And so it filled out the sound a lot.
I like that. I'm excited to check out your music.
We have an EP coming out this summer.
Yes, I'm calling it a a mini album. It's half an hour.
And we're playing Montrose Saloon July 11.
Awesome. Thank you guys very much. Anything you want to end on?
Thanks for the photo shoot. Thanks for asking us questions. (Laughs)
Sweet, love it. Thank you guys.
DADDY AND OTHER DADDY is:
PATRICK GUNDERSON on keyboards, drums, melodica, bells, ukulele, lead vocals
MARK DRISCOLL on piccolo bass, upright bass, six string bass, guitar, clarinet, glockenspiel, programming, vocals
REBECCA SILVERMAN on keyboards, guitar, bass, vocals
πDaddy and Other Daddy live in Chicago and are playing Montrose Saloon July 11th
π You can find them on bandcamp
π You can find them on Spotify
You can book your own Keep it 100 session here. β¨πΈβ¨